Dance Jiggaboo Dance05.23.08

The song is hateful but you can be the judge of the video.. I hope it offends when shown in this context rather than with some booty music in the background.

I’m like, “read a book and turn off the television”.

Holla at ya boy

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revolutionary thinking: Come Together05.23.08

I don’t like sharing and I don’t think that another woman would want to share me but I’m interested in your thoughts here:

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Is marriage healthy for the black family?02.26.08

I want to first say that I agree that marriage is healthy for us and so is raising a family together. If the relationship isn’t healthy then I would venture to wonder about the root causes that are persisting to create an environment that would allow such a relationship to flourish.

What is your role in the situation?

Everyone is capable of sabotaging a relationship that is involved either directly or indirectly. What is prudent is that the two main people involved know that they control the fate of the relationship and what ever comes out of it. Working together and understanding the needs of one another is most important. I can sit on my high horse and point the finger at her and say this and that is her fault and she can do the same to me. More →

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No BIG deal.02.24.08

In the beginning, every thing is fresh, exciting and new. You love the way he/ she looks while sleeping and they cut their meat in the cutest little pieces. You even like the way their lips twist slightly when they chew. Ah yes, this is love.

Nothing is too annoying or too off putting because you’re in love. You are still tingling from the very idea of being with this person on something so serious. Then one day, you come home from work and there are toenail clippings on the floor from the living room all the way to the bedroom. You call to your sweetie and in your calmest voice ask them about your disgusting find. They admit having left crusty toe remnants but inform you that it’s really no big deal. You sigh as you hear them crunch beneath your feet. Still, toenails and all you love them. More →

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Pancakes with the bacon on the side! Tip her…11.01.07

Can you cook?

I don’t mean just some ol hamburger helper, canned vegetables and boxed something else. Definitely not no “Slap it together with some water & shit in about 15 minutes and expect to be congratulated” type cookin…

I mean can you really throw down? Can you whip up a meal in under an hour that will make ya partner’s feet curl?

If you can then half the battle is won.

As a man, I don’t understand how these ladies be trying to lock a brotha down and ain’t never said let me invite him over for a home cooked meal. That is just plain crazy.

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Smoking = Erectile Dysfunction10.25.07

Another reason why we shouldn’t smoke fellas. Among other health risks, smoking is now linked to Erectile dysfunction.

This article also says quitting didn’t decrease effects of ED.

Maybe James Dean wasn’t so cool after all.

Men who smoke risk erectile dysfunction

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Researchers are able to knock out AIDS virus10.24.07

This is significantly promising news. Just came across it and thought I would share.

This does not mean that you should just get busy with reckless abandon as I’m sure this has to be FDA approved and not only that…you can still catch a slew of other shit.

Researchers are able to knock out AIDS virus

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Will a relationship ruin the friendship?10.18.07

Nervous writes in:

Man I’m excited and a little nervous. My friend that I known for over 10 years just gave me his grandmas engagement ring to get sized and asked me to be his wife.

I’m nervous because we always had the seinfield/elaine type of relationship. Well we both had a lot of growin up to do. I just don’t want that deep friendship to change. That’s why I’m a liittle nervous about it.

But damn. Its one helluva bling bling ring though.

He told about the ring numerous times, and how he kept special care of it. But I think he feels the same way I do. Scared it will ruin the friendship. Now I’m about to be 32 and he is 33 so I guess we are reaching the turning point.

We both had baby mama and dady drama in our lives. Thinking we are suppose to sacrifice who we really were. Then we both learned how stupid that was. Sigh.

Signed,
Nervous

First of all congrats, for a guy to give you a family heirloom shows that you mean a lot to him. 10 years is a long time to know someone.

The Seinfeld/Elaine dynamic is a little weird. You guys have probably been intimate but have not been attached seriously. Well thats how Elaine and Seinfeld were I think…

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Like two ships passing in the night…10.15.07

Like two ships in the night

This one is classic.

A woman calls a radio station (98.7 KissFM) to prank her husband. She is under the impression that this will put him in a good mood somehow. She goes on to explain that they are having issues lately and she would like to let him know she is thinking of him.

So anyway the radio host calls the husband and well… you probably heard it or are listening to the mp3 by now (MP3 at the bottom).

This lady along with the radio show hosts had no idea they were in for the shock of their life!!!

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She got me feenin…09.20.07

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Something about being in someone’s face all the time or them being around you all the time… it is way too easy to get tired of that person or vice versa. I like space or I have grown to like space in the last 2 years or so. I don’t love it but I like it. I like to think & work and not have to worry if I’m ignoring the person that is around me. When I want them around, I want them around. Period.

I always find it over-exciting not seeing someone for like 1-2 weeks and then you get to see that person and you feel all this anticipation.

It damn near drives me crazy.

When you on top (read, smothering) of someone all the time its not always good. It can be later on in the situation but at first its easy to get burnt out.

Ideally you want the other person to miss you. It creates desire. If it doesn’t, then that person probably isn’t that into you.

Just a thought I thought I’d share.

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