Make the Sandwich

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Something about being in someone’s face all the time or them being around you all the time… it is way too easy to get tired of that person or vice versa. I like space or I have grown to like space in the last 2 years or so. I don’t love it but I like it. I like to think & work and not have to worry if I’m ignoring the person that is around me. When I want them around, I want them around. Period.

I always find it over-exciting not seeing someone for like 1-2 weeks and then you get to see that person and you feel all this anticipation.

It damn near drives me crazy.

When you on top (read, smothering) of someone all the time its not always good. It can be later on in the situation but at first its easy to get burnt out.

Ideally you want the other person to miss you. It creates desire. If it doesn’t, then that person probably isn’t that into you.

Just a thought I thought I’d share.

T writes in and asks:

Why do guys feel they can love u up and leave your ass out 2 dry?…they say they wanna b with u and all of a sudden they dnt have shit 2 say they dnt call and then they ask u 2 be FRIENDS???…that shit is crazy please answer me that! THANK YOU!

Here are some reasons that Men love and leave (not in order of importance):

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