Make the Sandwich

Nervous writes in:

Man I’m excited and a little nervous. My friend that I known for over 10 years just gave me his grandmas engagement ring to get sized and asked me to be his wife.

I’m nervous because we always had the seinfield/elaine type of relationship. Well we both had a lot of growin up to do. I just don’t want that deep friendship to change. That’s why I’m a liittle nervous about it.

But damn. Its one helluva bling bling ring though.

He told about the ring numerous times, and how he kept special care of it. But I think he feels the same way I do. Scared it will ruin the friendship. Now I’m about to be 32 and he is 33 so I guess we are reaching the turning point.

We both had baby mama and dady drama in our lives. Thinking we are suppose to sacrifice who we really were. Then we both learned how stupid that was. Sigh.

Signed,
Nervous

First of all congrats, for a guy to give you a family heirloom shows that you mean a lot to him. 10 years is a long time to know someone.

The Seinfeld/Elaine dynamic is a little weird. You guys have probably been intimate but have not been attached seriously. Well thats how Elaine and Seinfeld were I think…

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T writes in and asks:

Why do guys feel they can love u up and leave your ass out 2 dry?…they say they wanna b with u and all of a sudden they dnt have shit 2 say they dnt call and then they ask u 2 be FRIENDS???…that shit is crazy please answer me that! THANK YOU!

Here are some reasons that Men love and leave (not in order of importance):

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