Keep it tight
Does your lover still do it for ya?
Does your lover still keep themself up? You know how it is, you get with someone…they all fly catching your eye turning you on and what not. Then time goes by and it ain’t as important as it was before to look nice. You get comfortable, dress a lil more comfortable, stop lifting weights and start gaining some instead.
Does this translate to satisfying sex? How much of your sexual satisfaction is the part that turns you on about the person?
I would wager that the person’s smell, shape, etc probably dictates the mood prior to any act.
May 31st, 2007 at 9:52 pm
As a female… comfort should mean sexy… sexy without trying that is! But then again everyone defines sexy differently. Sexy for me keeps me on my toes and keeps me wanting to keep him on his… Sexy means confidence and just having a natural vibe about him that even in the bummiest of clothes, his energy and everything else either calls to me or answers my calls when I decide I need to call out… I think it’s okay for a guy to get comfortable as long as his stamina and energy stay the same when its time for him to handle his B.I… Slacking on Personal hygiene is a DEFINITE NO-NO! There’s no getting around THAT one! But as a female, we’re not allowed certain priviledges, and i honestly dont think we should need them, because in my opinion being feminine and keeping both of his heads up should be on of the top priorities and everything else will follow!
June 18th, 2007 at 9:41 am
I think both people have to let their partners know what they like and need in order to keep both people pleased.
If you want her hair done every week say that. If you want him to keep his 6-pack let him know and maybe even workout with him. But you have to talk about it and then follow through.